Wisely Stupid!

Ever felt so much weight on your shoulders that made you wanna stop ... just stop? Not think or take a deep breath or calm yourself but just stop. Most of us are hollow inside, lowly clueless dumb founded creatures just hanging on. Getting consumed by this ever growing monstrous Blackhole of misery. You wake up in the morning thinking everything's fine and one day you realise you failed and you're past the point of return to the ways things were before. It all happens in a snap. I wish things were better; I was different, people were different. Some days are good, some are better but most of the rest are just sheer pain. This has become my state of being. Not fond of it to be quite honest. This sense of detachment from social construct makes me feel... what's the word for it? Uneasy?. Have you ever felt this way? If yes, what did you do? We all have pain... we carry it the whole day in our heart, go home with it & wake up next morning with it. It's like a storm wher...

  1 - Don't dare to question elders. Never ever! Following the instructions of elders without questioning them makes you a good boy. If you dare to question, you are definitely a spoiled brat. 2 - Government job rules, private job sucks. Take a look at the picture above. Government jobs are considered better in terms of job security. But people praise it for all wrong reasons.  Sarkari babus  can have their tea at leisure while the rest of the world can wait. Also, you get a chance to get extra under table income. But It is not the case with private jobs where performance is strictly monitored. So, they are bad jobs. 3 - Reservation is a curse for those who work really hard. This is the mother of all misery in any nation. In the exam, in government jobs, there are deserving people who are listed out because of this. 4 - The legal age for drinking is 25 but you can get married at 21. You need to be very responsive to handle your alcohol. But the responsibility of marriage ...

  Here are some signs that you can learn about a person’s personality by observing them: The ones pretending to be a secret are the easiest ones to get information out of. Someone with a loud voice is usually someone who’s very unheard. Those who are cautious and plan usually get better outcomes than those who decide on a dime. One who shouts and talks unnecessarily lacks confidence; empty utensils make noise. The one who will take the blame is the most responsible one. People who are ungrateful are actual people who lack perspective. People faithful in minor matters will be faithful in large matters. Those who don't smile easily are the ones who are a friend in need. It is really important to trust the first impression, as it shows a lot of auras and presence. People who maintain eye contact are the ones with confidence and are authentic. People who have been wealthy for many generations won't flaunt their wealth People who smile at strangers are mentally strong, they don’t ca...

  I’m going to show you the dark side of the world. would you dare to see it??? let’s see….. Global Happiness Challenge by Morshed Mishu

  -Look, how shameless these people are! They can’t spare even public transport from getting intimate inside. -These people are a disgrace to the society. All they want is to get physically intact all the time. -How shameless this girl is! I don’t think her parents taught her the fundamental values to behave inside a healthy society. -These people don’t deserve to be allowed inside public transport. - There are kids inside this bus. Don’t they care about the awful message they are spreading among minors?! -Wow! They turned this bus into their bedroom . These are some random remarks that couples receive regularly from random people when they get slightly close to each other inside public transport. Not only old people but also the mid-aged ‘ uncles-aunties ’   turn themselves into ‘ moral police ’   and blame these couples for every pandemonium that happens inside a society. I went through it several times when my girlfriend places her head on my shoulder and starts sleepi...

  Look at this girl maybe anyone can fall in love with this beauty… And now meet this girl... Maybe you can't fall in love with this girl at first sight but i bet you'll like her when you come to know about her. She is  Lizzie Velasquez. She was born with an unknown disorder so she can't gain weight and see with one eye. She was always bullied by her classmates and neighbors. And one day someone posted her video on youtube with the title of  The ugliest girl in this world . And one day she came to know about that video. And everyone in the comment section bullied her for her looks. And one random person commented, Please shot yourself as you are hideous. She was very disappointed and thought of committing suicide, but with that; she realized that how one can define her? And finally, she moved on and worked on herself. And after that completed her graduation and become a motivational speaker, a writer ted x speaker, and an inspiration to all… I bet the more you get to know...

This is the most faced situation whether it be a day-to-day scenario or life-changing decisions. Some say our goals should be reality-oriented and according to others' expectations are to be kept high otherwise we end up unsatisfied. First, let's discuss Expectations While expectations are hope-based and mostly a result of self-determination which can sometimes turn out to be favorable as we have had many past events of people achieving goals against all odds solely based on their willpower.  It's in our human nature to have a high moral belief regarding our own abilities & sometimes overestimated capabilities turn out to be disastrous not only for us but putting others' futures in japery too.  Now let's ponder upon reality Reality kinda sucks mostly and we always find our satisfaction in what we don't have, jokes apart reality is what it is as it is, there is no up or downside to it. Decisions that are based on reality are mostly experience-based on where p...