What Is LOVE?

Love doesn't begin or end the way it seems to think the way it does, it's more of a battle, a Fight, a powerful emotion, an effort, a stand, and a dedication. It's an unconditional love expressed to a person, falling in love is easy, and being enjoyed hot coffee is easier, but getting to know someone who really lights up your soul... now that's beautiful and rare.

What's All The Fuss About Love?

There comes a time in our lives when we wonder that there is someone for whom we have feelings which make us wild & full of joy and happiness when we come around that very person. Love is like a new feeling which can felt only by the ones in it, it's like the sixth sense we have which destroys our other five senses and makes us feel which might not even make sense to us.

Love makes us feel whole again as from the very moment of our birth we are loved unconditionally and somewhere deep down the road we lose pride in it and start taking things casually which creates a kind of void and emptiness deep inside us and when we finally meet someone who makes us feel complete again and fills the void, we felt whole again.

How It Varies From Person To Person?

Love is unconditional as a mother always loves her child no matter what happens in life, she never asks for anything back... similarly love is a selfless deed. Still, we find all kinds of people ignorant, aggressive, bullies, stalkers, rapists.

Love is more about giving than asking back, but that doesn't mean love can't be unilateral as it's not true that the one who doesn't know how to love someone isn't worthy of love. One might love someone for their entire life and might not get the same response from the other side.

How Can You Know If You're In Love Or Not?

To uncover that, there is a need to understand what's not love,

If it's,

• Because of his/looks or complexion, then it's just lust and nothing else.
• Because of her/his insight into life or knowledge, then it's not love ... it's admiration.
• Because s/he really loves being around you all the time, then it's not love ... it's a just pity.
• Because s/he makes me feel at home anywhere you stay then it's not love.... its unreasoned passion.

Love is when you don't know why exactly you're attracted to that person and there are no bounds to happiness or second thoughts on one & another. 

What Matters The Most When You're In Love?

Different phases come and go when you start your relationship but when you are at the peak of your relationship and you know almost everything about your partner and there is nothing

left to uncover then as time goes by we felt that the initial feeling, the spark, the closeness, the desperation that was there has faded, and maybe every effort that we now put up might not have the same impact as it earlier used to.

We need to understand that love is not all about being there all the time for your partner or sending gifts or seeing them regularly... well some of it is good till the time you are just trying to show how much you care. 

Loving is more like a job that requires constant hard work, parts of which you may not like, but you still do it and compromise as the other would do the same for you. Everyone needs a little time for themselves in which they do whatever they like doing in their free time, which even might spend time with you 

So try to balance things out and try to give your partner as much space as they want to make them feel comfortable about your relationship, open up to them, try to keep things clear in between, and develop a sense of understanding which is the core of all relationships.

Why Never Give Up On Love?

Most of us give up on love after someone we love leaves or betrays us and we are just too sad or depressed to look at other the side why should we give up on love because of someone who never knew a thing about love. 

Loving yourself is the preeminent step as you are worthy of love & you're perfect when you are you. As most of us behave and think under social acceptance, which is a major issue these days because of which we suppress our feelings for someone and killing the very fire inside us by neglecting all the signs and parting us from the source.

Being vulnerable is most important so that one can reach your heart, being that mature, no emotional person can only solve your problems in the short term but really messes you up in the long term.

Why & When You Should Stop Loving Someone?

Don't be the person who always remains altruist and never asks for anything in return for it. It's a good thing to do things for others by going out of your way but at least seek a sense of appreciation in others for whom you are doing the hard work for as people really have a short memory for returning the favor and they show their back the moment they get a chance.