What Matters In Life?

Nothing in life matters until we say it matters.

It can only be one's perspective on how he sees and perceives things that happen. We live in our psychologically eccentric bubbles of thoughts believing in faith and destiny. When we say that something or someone doesn't matter to us anymore, becomes reality only when we exercise upon that very thought and we push that thought into reality which might not have happened if would have turned our heads the other way around to look at the other side, take a different approach in the very beginning. 

How to decide what matters in life?

Deciding upon something can be really hard sometimes when we know the possible outcomes or consequences of our decisions and sometimes we leave it to fate or silly things like settling it with a toss or leaving it with someone else who might not have full knowledge of the matters his decision will be based upon. In the end, the only thing that happens is we trying to run away from our very responsibilities.

1. You need to know that we can't make everyone happy with all the decisions that we take as if one of the outcomes was in everyone's favour then we won't be making a decision in the first place. So, we should not feel guilty or hesitate to make a decision when it comes it.

      

    2. People are used to choosing easy paths in life and if aren't one of those people then don't let              things or people or any other reason hold you back as greater things come in life with greater               risks.

      3. By living life on someone else's terms make us forget who we are, where we come from, what            we  stand for, what we believe in & let me tell you this, today's world is full of things and people            who put their ideas, what they believe is better for us in our minds through advertisements or              brands, manipulating us about what we should seek in life or own in order to have a happy life.

What if MS Dhoni (Cricketer) would have agreed upon his father's opinion about not leaving his job in railways and forget about cricket, then he wouldn't be what he's today. But sometimes things which matter to us can have a hard impact on life that depends on us or that getting affected by the decisions that we make. Setting safer grounds is the best that one can do in that situation which can be earning a stable source of income till the time you are pursuing your goals. Which can boost other's confidence in you which will ultimately result as a motivation to you is a better way of handling things.

Conclusion:

We didn't choose to be born, we weren't born with a purpose, so who we are or what we have become or might become is and will a result of what we have thought. Some say thinking doesn't cook rice, i say if you have thought well and enough, it's half task done.